Husband is cheating. As I found out about this? Easy! Looked into his cell phone. There I found a message.... «hi! Meet in the billiard-room. Send smack Katyusha. A whole, wait for us! Vova and Andrey». His hands shook when I read this message. I dropped the phone and ran crying in the bathroom. I calmed all: a mother, a sister, yourself man. And that comfort, when I myself have seen it all? Vision deceive me could not. Him-then it is certainly not necessary!
The thing is that my husband and I have work schedules do not always coincide. And then, when they do not coincide, Andrey goes for a walk with a Brother. I do not like what they communicate, though Vova - his cousin. Recently Vova lost in the casino of your car. And his mother a loan now pays. I'm afraid, that and mix it all «involved». The more I'm afraid of what he was really with the other girls walking. Why was it then to marry me? My mother protects it, but I can't agree with them. The mother says: «wouldn't have married him for you, if you walk would want to»». Do ye not understand my mother, and that married men are walking. A stamp in the passport is nothing for many. And I'm very shore of the fact that there are now at me in the document.
We made it up, of course, but I can't trust him to the end. Undermined my confidence. And even offended me! He would, being in my place, generally closed to me in four walls, and don't let go. But I don't do that! And do not row.
I love it. And I will not lose it. Even if he is cheating on me with so many women. I want to stay with him. Do not give it to the other! I will try to be the best for him, if now I am not the most - most.
I know that not the only one in the world. Got, thus, from the men, many women. Many of the cast for treason, many - to forgive. I am one of the women, who belong to the second variant. Stupid to stay with the man after the betrayal of him, but I can't do otherwise. I'm so used already to him for five years, that she imagine myself with some other man. Andrey - man. They are polygamy. Men are not able to meet or live with one. Do not say that all. Add the word «almost»not to hurt the feelings of all men.
A shame then that the first time I'm such a scene he likes. He had me a reason not to give. Though change, but carefully concealed it. And here - did not work. I cried the whole bathroom. Probably, I stayed in there for an hour and a half, not paying attention to the entreaties of my mother and sisters. As they don't understand me here? Yeah, that's true. His shirt is closer to the body. Perhaps if they were in such a situation, would behave worse.
Andrey is Smoking a cigarette on the street. She was afraid that he was sleeping in the car, or go home. She loves very son-in-law. I soon begin to be jealous of! As in the movie: loves the son-in-law more than the daughter of their own. Happens....
How accuse her husband of infidelity?
Girl, I don't know what I should do with his infidelities. But I know how you can catch her husband in these faults! Want to - I can share. Read.... You might find something that I know. But incriminate (blame) - it is useless. The man will be unlocked until will not solve itself (voluntarily) in all confess.
The husband may change, if:
Not spend the night at home. It is clear that he is not hedgehogs in the zoo feeds! He may be a thousand excuses. Type, the friends of late, lost, was visiting her grandmother. And you can have a thousand reasons not believe him! What can answer you: Home you want to spend the night! .., I know that you've been with a girl...With friends you can meet in the evening, but not at night. No need to be so rude, though hard to pass on to softness. Answer justify it differently.
Not responsible for your mobile. For a long time does not respond is not to say that the battery. You can always ask someone the phone to dial your number? Isn't that right? Say that I have not - give him the latest phone, the volume of which can be and become deaf.
Do not call you himself. He may say that he had been very busy that he had not had time. But this is a lame excuse! Always need to find at least a minute for conversation with the beloved.
Does not behave as usual. Well, for example, earlier given you a lot of his time, and now - not notice the almost. Or - Vice versa.... But not накидывайтесь at him with the charges immediately. Watch out for the conduct of his. Maybe you something and thought.
Does not make you the compliments. And you bought a skirt and a dress, and ночнушечку. All for him. 't noticed - they went to the Barber shop to replace the image. Compliments not wait for the - sound the alarm.
On his clothing was found lipstick. The man and then the justification will find! To say that transport was driving, inadvertently touched the lips of the girl's clothes. He will «fight» to the last.
For a long time he has been delayed on a business trip. And he did not speak, when he will return. Even if he knows the exact date of return. If you ask to go with him - he refuses to you borrow, inventing anything to make you believe in the truth of his words.
He suddenly begins to buy you gifts, drive in a restaurant, make a lot of money. If not done this before - there is a reason many to think. It should not be split and throw frying: things are not to blame for human греховностях.
Girl, I too difficult now. I cry, and sad. But I keep myself in hand. Try not to rush into extremes and not to succumb to panic moods. Each of you is unique. Love yourself!
I'm not just saying so, because I like, though, and bitter in soul. Husband is cheating, but life goes on. I'm not going to change him in revenge. Sleep with another - baseness. We have, among other things, all is not so bad. And I'm pleased that Andrew did not drink, though, and smokes. Once argued with his father in a three hundred dollars, which will quit. When he won - started Smoking again. Would be better if he smoked a lot, but stopped change.... Can, with me anything that wasn't so, once he runs the girls?" Do not become однолюбом? This is not taught in the school and in the Institute of....
It lives in the heart. Have anyone living - lucky. I also can boast of: I the other man to anything.
How to live after the betrayal of her husband?
I want to share with you the fact that I very much care about. Hope you all. And then I have all become crazy. I have a guy that I am madly in love. Many years we lived together. And not complain, in General, to a family life. It is a pity that family life was not registered in any way. We corrected this position three years later. We spent a good time, collect pleasant memories, keeping them in memory....
But life turned upside down. I found out that my husband has changed. And, perhaps, many times. He didn't say exactly how many. One pleases, he confessed to everything. Husband wanted to tell you all of the details. But when I heard: «I've changed».... the More I hear anything't want to.
Live also do not want. Yes and how to live, when you find out, that her beloved husband was on the other?
Friends said that there are options, how to live further! And they expressed it about these words: «Choose how you want to rebuild all».
How to survive and forget the betrayal of her husband?
Find another! Let him and will not be as good as your husband, but he can distract you and the thoughts, and from himself.
Apply for a divorce! Do it in that case, if the husband insists or you can't forgive for what they have done.
Spend more time in the company of friends and people in General! No need to fetter yourself in solitude. Loneliness is not a manifestation of heroism.
Work, work, work!" Do not sit without business, don't let the thoughts you атаковывать. The work of the many helps to heal from the wounds of soul and heart.
Discover the sea school. So much to do no of the minutes of the free. And wait a second free to leave is not worth it! Give yourself at the mercy of Hobbies.
Buy camera! Why? As you walk, run.... looking for interesting pictures. You are no worse than any of the photographer. Just have fans. And there are professionals. Art will save the world of your soul its refinement.
Remember only the positive, immerse yourself in it! You don't need negative emotional problems. Be more of everything!
A very hard - выкричите all of his emotions or chips into the pillow. You can, and in a punching bag, if it is available for you.
Imagine that changed not you. Try to believe in the fact that it was just a horrible dream.
Talk with a traitor. In a conversation to Express all that worries you. All that sore. But refrain from bad and obscene expressions.
A new life start. The very new. This, in which there will be your bad past.
Look for the eyes of truth. Nothing to do, because life is tricky lady. The other she be not able to.
Remember that your life is just beginning. And no man is worth that you make it to be destroyed!
If you know how to be strong - try just to forget about the treason and forgive. Forgiveness is difficult. Especially in those moments when it is imagination. But get rid of it you can. One question: do you need to forgive? Think of how it should be, on this issue.
Think about how your life will be if you do the step of forgiveness. Weigh, as if on a scale, all «for» and «against all». And there and see what wins.
Just live! Look for the joy in all of life's little things to be distracted from the blow of fate.
If you drive a car, buy a new one, you Can borrow the money from someone else. But a new car - the Savior of your. Innovation - that is salvation. There is no money for auto - there are other things or the amenities that you can buy. Well, for example: a bar of Chocolate. The clothes. Shoes. Cosmetics. Accessories.
You need to change everything, not to remember the past, which still haunts you in the present. Up to the place of residence, if it is possible, of course.
I am thinking above all of these tips. You need to not forget the betrayal, and her husband! I can't forgive, though and I love....
Wedding ring flew from the balcony. Beautiful flew: to the beat of the autumn leaves. I didn't run, to find him. I have things her husband threw away, but you will have to leave me, because apartment - not mine. I gathered, in principle, their belongings. And put them in a little corner. That is, the the suitcase with them. What he gave me, I leave with him. I do not need anything from him!
I will live for the sake of our child. He did not know that I was pregnant. And no one will know, because I don't want him to know something. I know that in me (not here!) the boy was born. So I was assured on ultrasound, though the term is still tiny. I only patronymic of the Pope ladies. And the name will be my girl. After the divorce, I get to his name. Though I hate the red tape with the documentation, but I'll do it.
The child grows up - all tell him about this. Can, and will not remember the kid about the Pope. Let's see. Call it Danila. Like the name because it is not very common. As far as I remember, so called the name of his son, my friend. Sorry that I have not seen him for a long time. Proposed to cross the Pope become. He told me to baptize his son, but there's wife jealous not in on the joke. Oh, and I did not intrude.
A friend is going through. Call more often. Afraid of what I will do with you something. I wanted to. But how, if the inside of me is life? I can't be so selfish. I will present the life of a baby, I will devote all my time to him.
I still hurt. No matter how distracted - finally distract does not work. Or I don't know how to get distracted. Washed them only and busy. But I hate for what he did. A bunch of exciting issues, the mosaic of thousands of answers.... Why is it all with me? But the other, in the жнее time, so I don't want to.
Cut sausage - cut it with a knife. He! If he would have left all my thoughts - it would be easier to live. Would be better if it was me I never met on the way! I, as it seemed to me always, happiness deserve, and not pieces of happiness. And life was just out of scraps.... you Need to change something. Don't want to tolerate men now. I see that anything good from this does not work. Ahead - the divorce and the birth of кровиночки. For the sake of this live in exactly worth it! I won't forgive him.... And he also would not forgiven.
He would have been killed on the spot and me, and lover!
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